Today’s five-year anniversary of Terri Schiavo’s death is a reminder that we all have to face end-of-life decisions, for ourselves and often for loved ones. Most of us don’t like talking about end-of-life issues. Even more of us never get around to putting a plan in writing. Then-26-year-old Terri Schiavo didn’t either.
Terri was diagnosed as being in a persistent vegetative state after suffering cardiac arrest in 1990. Her family battled in court for several years about her health care and, ultimately, whether she could be disconnected from life support.
According to an AP story, most Americans still avoid planning for the end of their lives. This is ironic, since we are a people who plan everything: our schedules, our careers, our vacations, our retirements. When we don’t plan for end-of-life treatment and medical decisions, other people can take over at the very time when we are most vulnerable and in need of understanding. A couple of simple yet critical legal documents – power of attorney for health care and living will -can communicate your wishes about the care and treatment you want to receive if you reach the point where you can no longer speak for yourself.